Author Archives: brendacheyne

About brendacheyne

I am a hypnotherapist/coach. Mother Grandmother passionate gardener, third degree black belt in Aikido. I want to see an end to abuse and rape on the Earth.

Silent Grief

Silent Grief I have decided to share some of my story because thousands of woman live with this silent grief. Un-named, locked away, deep inside ourselves. We hold  this grief silently in our hearts while we ‘get on’ with our lives.  I feel that … Continue reading

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Dark Night of the Soul

Ruby’s eyes were smiling as she watched me doing my yoga, on the mat beside her. Ruby became my dog companion 6 years ago. She was very traumatized her bodily reactions told me her story. Her eyes have softend and … Continue reading

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Rape aftermath and recovery

I cried when I read  the pychologists report which said; Ms Cheyne clearly satisfies the criteria for Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. Ms Cheyne’s symptomology is highly unlikely to resolve without extensive psychotherapy over a number of years. Ms Cheyne is an … Continue reading

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Hiding Grief

I remember, the day I felt my mothers’ life force wain as if it was yesterday. We were on holiday, staying in a Crib at Riverton. Walking back from the beach, holding our wet, sandy towels,my hand in hers.  Mum … Continue reading

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Getting to Peace

Getting to Peace a guide for healing from rape and abuse This book is dedicated to my friend Shelia Evans who said ” this must be done for the children.” It includes many women’s stories including my own. However, it … Continue reading

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Depression gone by 2 instalment

The delay in my writing has been a fall which resulted in a broken, upper arm, in a few places. Two weeks now and doing well. I have had no depressive reaction which could have been the case. I would … Continue reading

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New Login Page

Originally posted on The WordPress.com Blog:
Sense something different today? Well, if not, log out of your blog and log back in again. Wait! What’s that? A new login page! Okay, let me explain. A long time ago, there…

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